Sunday, 1 June 2025
Saturday, 15 February 2025
how do you cross a river ...
.. from one shore to another ... without swimming or boating? (not even paddle/dive) .. you can walk on it! (provided it is frozen - just wait for the time and opportunity) :-)
this is something that usually happens every year - at least the weather is cold enough for sufficient period of time .. i guess, we walked on frozen credit river some 15 years ago as well :-) see here
Monday, 13 March 2023
innocence of screen-agers
during March break - i was involved with kids camp
one young chap (even below the minimum age mentioned) somehow was part of the group .. and obviously i could not include him in all the coding related activities meant for little older kids .. he happily was passing time playing games on the desktop computer ..
on roblox (i need to learn/explore that platform more) he might have come across something similar (as above pic) .. and i might be busy in some other corner of the room when he requested some money from a fellow camper (he assumed he has to pay for some kind of "upgrade") .. the other kid also just passed a $20 bill (note) and did not bother what our friend was up to ..
during the lunch break, the kind/generous 'lender' mentioned to me that he cannot go out and buy his lunch because he is out of money (he had given $20 to the youngest camper!) .. on further inquiry we figured out that the innocent screenager had clicked the button next to CD drive and "inserted" the bill/note "inside" assuming it was some kind of system to pay for his "upgrade" in his game .. i thought they were all joking and did not believe the "story" till they convinced with some "green" shade i could sense inside the drive - unfortunately the note was stuck inside and we could neither get it out nor confirm its presence. i called the IT support desk and mentioned that i might have the weirdest "problem" they have ever heard of - and i requested someone to come physical down to the computer lab we were in ..
the technician happened to be my former student - and he said he needs to "unlock" the hardware first and then take the system to their "shop" to actually open up the case and see if they can get the money back :D
i requested him to take at least a picture for me - it was such an interesting 1st day of the week long camp :)
ahh, the innocence of the screen-agers these days !!
Sunday, 29 August 2021
more similarity/difference :-)
one more pic to add to the earlier post -> https://www.uniqideas.online/2021/08/similardifferent-howwhy.html
Thursday, 12 August 2021
similar/different? how/why?
I recently came across a posted - showing leaves from a single tree and posing interesting questions about several leaves .. how are they similar? how are they different? why are they similar? why are they different? ... http://www.khaydock.com/Art/Rain%20tree%20poster%20english.pdf
and then while my daily 2km run/walk today (day 20 of 100 - hdor.com) i noticed a bunch of leaves fallen from one tree .. thought of having some pics of my own :-)
Sunday, 10 May 2020
life?
life is a bitch .. and then you die
Certainly, it sounded pessimistic to me - so, i had to twist it to something happier
Life is a BLISS .. and then you FLY :-)
Wednesday, 6 May 2020
why be angry? let go :-)
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Sunday, 3 May 2020
want to hop on the 'happy' train?
it probably doesn't like whining or unhappy folks - hence it makes them detrain for sometime ... don't worry - it goes round and round - so it will again happily take you onboard once you have dealt with your cribbing - so, be cheerful and you will get where you want to go !!
Thursday, 13 February 2020
vasundhara वसुंधरा
one from https://g.co/ev/13823 is show below
Monday, 10 February 2020
what is meditation? 1
but then - i am not planning a 'thesis' on the subject - i can share at least what it means to me? what do i feel ... :-)
so, just my personal views on what is it?
i think it is simple act of spending time with oneself - we all (especially in this busy city lifestyle) get caught up in so many things - work, family and what not is ever demanding - we seldom have time to 'think' - to 'see' our self - to talk with and listen to our own inner voice.
but seemingly 'simple' act also gets complex - since it is not 'urgent' - we tend to easily postpone it .. it is not always 'attractive' enough - we are so used to 'satisfy' our (external facing) five senses almost all the while - if any of the sense is not 'pampered' we don't like to 'waste' our time ..
so, this simple act needs strong resolve and discipline :-)
in fact, sometimes it can get 'scary' or 'ugly' - we all have 'unknown unknown' quadrants in our mind/brain - and while spending time with ourselves we might end up wandering in that 'dark' space - we didn't even know existed - hence, we are 'faced' to see our image which we do not want or like
so, only a 'brave' person can continue such 'soul searching'
now - when you explain it to someone like that - only a brave, committed person can do such a 'boring' task which does not appeal to any of the senses - who in their sanity going to even attempt doing it - that too 'regularly' :-) ? ... well, it is not something to be tried out in ideal situation -- i think if one keeps attempting (despite of several lapses) one gets 'braver' or 'more disciplined' ... and one enjoys long lasting benefits - of 'clearer' inner vision ... it can even turn your 'heart' attacks into 'heal' attacks.
there is no 'perfect' or 'ideal' meditation ... it is always 'work in progress' for me .. it helps if it is done in presence of positive 'symbols' and objects to get power to fight the 'internal demons'
wish all of us can get on with our 'samudra manthan' where we might face the dreaded poison on the way - but our motivation is always the blissful nectar that will eventually certainly show up - because there is only 'happy endings' for meditation - if it is not happy it means you have to still go on ! :-)
Saturday, 8 February 2020
balloon story ...
A group of kids were put together in a room with as many balloons - each kid's name was put up on one balloon - they were asked to find their "own" balloon - while they frantically tried to be "the first" they realized it was not easy - in fact, some balloons popped (blew off) - and hardly one or two might have found their own 'named' balloon after several minutes.
The same 'experiment' was repeated - but this time with little different set of 'instructions' - they were asked to pair up the balloon with the child whose name was on it (it was not competition anymore - rather collaboration) - the group soon realized it was much more calm environment (less anxiety) and many rightful owners found their 'own' balloon in comparatively less time.
i guess in life too - running blindly after my own happiness is more stressful and less effective/rewarding than even making a humble attempt to pair up someone with their joy
[I found one version here - https://www.slideshare.net/RishibhaKurichh/balloons-in-a-room]
Friday, 7 February 2020
visualize
I came across this article .. Visualizing Your Future Can Hack Your Brain and Change Your Life - and it makes me grateful again - the central thought is reminded once again ..
Tuesday, 4 February 2020
sources of happiness
Sunday, 29 June 2014
another perspective on oneness?
'we all are connected' is such a cliche ...
our ancestors have been saying (from time immemorial) that 'world is one family' (वसुधैव कुटुम्बकम् vasudhaiva kuá¹umbakam)
as i prepare myself for the 12 Oct Chicago Marathon (in support of Samskrita Bharati), i got to experience the universal oneness during my recent trainings:
- the other day, i was returning back from a long run - and crossed another runner on the way - we greeted each other with just a smile. she quickly glanced that i was not carrying any water on me & immediately asked if i needed some to drink - offering her bottle of water to me - who was nothing but a complete 'sweaty' stranger :) ... a very small gesture maybe but it felt good and made me think - intrinsically we are one
latest technology too is helping us feel more connected:
- today, after 1 hour of long running, i was feeling little tired and suddenly heard a beep on my smart phone - it was a 'like' and 'comment' on my in-progress training (through my endomondo app) from a long lost friend/acquaintance who is sitting half way across the globe in a different time zone - i got the necessary boost with this real-time moral support from someone who could overcome the barrier of time and distance - and i went on for next half hour
'may all be well' (सर्वे à¤à¤µà¤¨्तु सुखिनः. sarve bhavantu sukhinah)
Wednesday, 29 May 2013
zoom out!
[Image from Pixabay - http://pixabay.com/static/uploads/photo/2011/12/13/14/31/earth-11015_640.jpg?i]
life is like a painting - if you see things that you do not like (some spots or rough patches), simply 'zoom out' (ie look at it from a distance) so that you enjoy the 'big picture' - the whole 'canvas' (of this universe) as painted by the almighty is certainly 'picture perfect' :)
Friday, 26 October 2012
nature is forgiving :)
so, don't worry too much about few wrong turns you might have taken in the past - just enjoy the journey and you will have fun :)
Wednesday, 1 August 2012
time is NOT money ...
Wednesday, 4 July 2012
are you 'playing' with your life?
there was a group of visitors who were 'shocked' at the sight - and one of them quickly exclaimed - 'these guys are playing with their life!' - when I turned to glance, I noticed that someone amongst them was carelessly enjoying the nature with a lighted cigarette in his hands ... and it took a lot of effort to stop myself from blurting - "isn't smoking as good as 'playing' with one's life?"
It then occurred to me - we are all playing with our life - in some way or other - we may not notice it (the way a third-party onlooker can see it clearly) ... question is not whether or not ... it is 'how'? are we playing in a manner that is 'fun and rewarding' or is the game 'dangerous and draining us' ...
whatever is the answer you give to your own self - remember this - course correction is always possible - and everything is in your control - you can quickly take charge of your current actions - so that the future results are what you want them to be! :)
how is your game going?


















